My girlfriend and I have been together for almost six years, and her health condition is not very good either. A few days ago, we went to the hospital for a check-up and surprisingly found out that she was pregnant! We are considering giving up on this child because our jobs have just stabilized, and due to the distance, I cannot be with her often, fearing that she may feel lonely and depressed. In addition, she has to become a mother just one year after graduation, which makes it difficult for her to accept. We haven’t had the chance to travel to her favorite place together yet. Last night, we hardly slept much, trying to adapt to this sudden reality. I hope the master can provide some advice. My girlfriend was born on June 30, 2002 at 18:02 in Jingzhou City, Hubei Province, according to the Gregorian calendar.
The eight character destiny of good faith is: Renwu, Bingwu, Jisi, and Guiyou.
Universiade: Yi Si, Jia Chen, Gui Mao, Ren Yin, Xin Chou, Geng Zi, Ji Hai, Wu Xu, Ding You, Bing Shen
Analysis of the Joyful Use of God: I was born in the noon moon, receiving the power of the moon’s command, and the fire of Bing was revealed, resulting in the mutual growth of Si and Wu in the earthly branches. Although there is a sign of interlocking in Siyou, the momentum of the moon’s noon fire is strong, and overall the sun is stronger. Enjoying God for gold and water, but avoiding God for fire and earth.
Fate analysis: The benevolent star of the eclipse represents the offspring, and both the positive and negative imprints are very strong. Although there is a Wealth Star to restrain the Yin Star, the Ren Gui Water lacks a foundation and has weak strength, making it difficult to obtain offspring in the Fate Bureau itself. In addition, her lack of wood in her birth chart and weak liver and gallbladder function inevitably have a serious impact on her hematopoietic function. As a woman, the imbalance of qi and blood naturally leads to difficulties in reproduction. However, it is gratifying that there is a Wenchang star in her destiny, which means that the child’s future academic performance will not be too poor. The Children’s Palace also has a Food God Star, indicating that children are healthy and enjoy eating. Finally, observing the use of God in the hour column indicates that children will be able to help their parents.
Liunian Dayun: During the age range of 19 to 28, one goes through Jiachen Dayun. The Heavenly Stem Armor Wood of this fortune prospers the Yin Star, which has a restraining effect on food damage, which is not very favorable for the children’s fortune. However, the combination of Chen and You has brought a good opportunity for the Children’s Palace, and the possibility of smooth childbirth still exists. In addition, this year is the auspicious year of Jiachen, and the annual fortune matches, further enhancing the strength of Jiamu, which may lead to an imbalance in the impact of the hit on children. Therefore, special attention should be paid to physical health. If there is a chance of pregnancy, it is important to seize it.
Summary suggestion: Now is a good time for you to decide to have children, which is also in line with your destiny. Your job is stable, and your unit supports childbirth, which is really a good welfare; Plus, how many people envy the willingness of their in laws to help take care of their children! Life is like this, plans often cannot keep up with changes. Childbirth is also difficult to obtain without the fortune of having children. As for the travel plan being disrupted? It’s okay, there are still many opportunities in the future. Life is about constantly learning and adjusting through action. Many people always expect the perfect timing, but end up doing nothing.
